Be Single and Have Fun.

Dating is hard. Women and men have many options and a standard of who they will date. Until late last year, I was all about the dating apps and dating sites and not having great results. I discovered Coach Greg Adams on YouTube. He is a big proponent of MGTOW beliefs. I agree with a lot of what he has to say regarding dating, marriage, divorce, child support. How much of it benefits men the least.

My immediate family has generational separation if that's even a thing. My parents' parents either weren't in the picture or separated. My parents are divorced. My brothers and sister are all separated from their child's biological parent. Marriage is not in the cards for me, and I'm not going to take that risk.

According to a US News article from December 2020, the divorce rates have dropped from 2009-2019 by 2.1%. But marriage rates within the same period have fallen by 1.3%

For these reasons, I feel there will be even more single people in the future, leading to declining birth rates. At least in first-world countries.

I thought living a single life would exacerbate my sex addiction. That remains to be seen, but I know that the less I engage in my compulsions, the happier I am.

I'm continuing to focus more on myself, not looking to chase anyone to date and engage in new scary activities I've never done. You'll see some of that in this short video below. Thoughts? Comments? Please do so below.

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